As the new year begins, a peculiar term often resurfaces: ‘Divorce Month’. January has gained this reputation due to a perceived spike in divorce filings after the festive season. We’ve seen ‘Divorce Month’ and ‘Divorce Monday’ trending even more this year than last, and so at Wells Family Mediation, we thought we’d try to help unpack what it means for families navigating marital challenges, and to separate the myths from the facts.
Myth: Divorce Filings Peak on January 1st
While enquiries about divorce often rise in January, the idea that solicitor and mediators phone lines, and courts are flooded on the first week of January is exaggerated. The post-holiday period prompts reflection, leading to more enquiries, but filing for divorce is usually a careful and planned decision.
Fact: The Holidays Can Be a Tipping Point
The festive season often highlights family dynamics. Some couples delay decisions to “get through Christmas” for their children or extended family. Once January arrives, unresolved issues may lead to action.
Myth: January Divorces Are Inevitable
Not all couples facing the strain over Christmas choose to divorce. For some, January is a chance to work on their relationship. Counselling and professional support can help to address issues and strengthen bonds.
Fact: January Brings Increased Enquiries
Family law professionals and mediators often see a rise in enquiries in January. This reflects people seeking information to explore options, not a “divorce frenzy.” Many individuals are simply gathering facts and information.
What is ‘Divorce Monday’?
The first working Monday of January has earned the nickname Divorce Monday due to a notable increase in enquiries to legal professionals and mediators. After the Christmas break, this day often marks the start of serious exploration for individuals considering separation. For many, it’s about gathering information and seeking guidance rather than immediately filing for divorce.
How Mediation Can Help
If you’re contemplating separation or divorce, mediation offers a constructive alternative to litigation. Benefits include:
1 Better Communication: Mediation prioritise dialogue, helping couples reach mutually beneficial agreements.
2 Preserving Relationships: For co-parents, mediation fosters co-operation, benefiting children and family dynamics.
3 Cost-Effectiveness: Mediation is often less expensive than court proceedings.
4 Customised Solutions: Mediators help craft agreements tailored to each family’s unique needs.
Starting the Year with Clarity
January can be a time of reflection and decision-making. Whether you’re working on your relationship, exploring separation, or seeking new co-parenting strategies, professional guidance is recommended. At Wells Family Mediation, we’re here to provide compassionate support and practical solutions.
January isn’t about “divorce”—it’s about making informed decisions, and we’re here to help you start the year with clarity and confidence.